Warning labels

You know. . . I wish there was a way to give other girls online a heads up about certain guys like after you've talked to them for a while or went out on a date. It would really help to know which guys like to stand girls up, or are just looking for a hook up, or just all around jerks! There could be positive feedback, too. Like maybe the date went well, but there just wasn't a spark, or he's a nice guy, I'm just not interested. But they wouldn't be able to see their feedback unless it was positive. The website could block out really vulgar things, like cursing etc.


It would save me so much time. I told a guy that I couldn't hang out one weekend, and I regret it because the guy I ended up hanging out with was a real . . . [insert vulgar name calling]
Waste of my time!

Thankfully, the guy that I basically rejected still wants to hang out. I like when some of these guys understand that I'm going to date other people considering I don't just start a conversation with one guy then delete my account so I can get to know only them. You'd be surprised how some of these guys (usually the jerkfaces) are not okay with you dating other people the instant you begin talking to them.

Success

Had a date last night with someone I met through POF before I deleted my account..the first time lol.

Went really well! He even texted me this morning saying he had a good time! This is a first for me..at least where I shared the same feelings. Not sure where it'll lead though. Still keeping my options open :) 

It's always awesome when a guy smells really good too. Ya know when they have found that cologne that really combines well with their own scent - awesome :)

It's also awesome when a guy takes things slow and doesn't want to rush into anything just yet. I like that. 

Til next time ;)

Romance shomance

Well doesn't look like my summer vacation was filled with any romance. Oh well. Still have one full day on the beach before I head back to the grind. There's one guy who wants to hang out on the beach ...we were supposed to hang out today but my family had plans away from the island and we had a blast. Maybe tomorrow? 

Had another hookup request today. Man they just get more and more perverted it seems. This guy wanted me to come to his place, "do our business" then I leave. Bing, bang, boom ..done. My reply? 

"no thanks" 

Sick.

Guys are gross. I'm sure there are gross girls out there too that do the same thing. I wouldn't know considering I'm searching for guys. Do guys really get their way that easily? Ladies..do you really just agree to show up on a strange man's doorstep do your business then leave?! Isn't that considered free prostitution basically? At least make them give you something lol take a pair of their sweat pants or something- those are the best. 

I love the beach- hate to leave it...but life is waiting for me. Considering moving closer to the coast next year. We'll see what happens ;)

✌

Flip...FLOP

Well this "dating while at the beach" has literally failed. I'm only here for 2 more days and I've only met one guy who wanted me to come to his place and do bad things and he wasn't even attractive! 

One guy promised and swore and crossed his heart that he'd come hang with me on the beach today- he's not responded to any texts I've sent him. It's 8:00 pm. This sucks.

One dude wants me to come to a town about 45 mins away to hook up. Whyyyy can't guys grow a pair, get in their car and drive to see me? Are they really accommodated to women flocking towards them now a days? What happened to the man chasing after the woman? Instead, now it's the man begging and pleading until he gets his lady friend to go out of her way to see him. I just don't like this idea at all. 

Boys are dumb.