Thursday, June 19, 2014

Third Thursday// v.1

Third Thursday

It's Here!!! The Date Disaster Link-Up!! 
It's really simple. First you gotta dig through your memory base (some of you may not have to dig too deep) and think of a bad date experience you would like others to laugh to. Next, turn it into a post. Then grab the button to include in your post. & Last thing you should do is add your link to the list at the bottom of this post!

Here's just ONE bad date experience I had:

Had a guy who said he was going to be close to where I work because of a doctor's appointment and asked if I would be able to meet up after he got done for lunch. (Apparently... my coworkers explained that 'meet up' is code for the date being 'Dutch' but if he says "let me take you to lunch/dinner" that means he's paying)

So far so good with the first impression, he was super cute and seemed like he was interested in me.

Waiter comes up to take our drink order and while I'm looking at the menu he asks, "Is this going to be together or separate?" And looks right at my 'date' and I'm not saying anything, because I ultimately think that's his decision...

My 'date' takes a second then finally answers, "Separate."

I took it as him not being interested in dating, OBVIOUSLY. . . but get this. He sends me a text afterwards and says, "I can't wait to see you again! :)"

REALLY!?!? You really think I'm going to go out with you again and pay for my own meal? No thanks. You  keep your vacation money that you bragged about. . . spending over 1,000 dollars that you've saved up for that you couldn't spare the 8.00 lunch I had. But I hope you have a wonderful time on vacation :)
Guys.. if you're going to meet up with a girl you've met online... buy her meal.

I know it's not the 1950's anymore, but girls like to be treated in an old fashioned way. Open the dang door for her. Walk her to her flippin' car. Wipe your freaking face with a napkin while you eat your $16.00 steak you're eating. And finally, pay for her meal. Your dating life would be so much more successful.


  1. Krista KetterhagenJune 19, 2014 at 11:09 AM

    I can honestly say that I have NEVER had a guy request separate checks. I have though, hahaha. IMO, if he asked you to "meet up" or whatever he had better be opening his wallet.

  2. I do separate checks all the time but only when I think the date sucks beucase I feel bad taking his money.

  3. That is ridiculous! I mean, not on a first date, ya know? My husband and I share our money but he loves to pay for things still, so I always let him :P

  4. I have asked to separate checks before.. like Paulina said ^^ I sometimes will feel bad about taking the dude's money if I feel like I won't be seeing him ever again... but dude should at least OFFER.

  5. Right! That's why on my date last week I paid for the movie because I felt bad, knowing that I wasn't going to be seeing him again..intentionally lol.

  6. It's just a nice feeling knowing a guy is treating you special for like 2 seconds when that bill hits the table...And I wouldn't have been as ticked off if he hadn't ordered the expensive steak and bragged about his thousand dollars he had for his beach vacation lol.

  7. Never had a date!?!? How in the world?! lol you're too pretty to not go on dates!! dates tend to be quite comical haha there will be more to come!

  8. I don't know, it just happens, I ask myself those questions too. Haha.